ALPHA MALE RULE #1: seek to improve your money, job, status and looks. This is the most important rule that will make all the other rules flow effortlessly. when you have money, job, status and looks you will naturally exude an abundance mindset which will attract many female prospects. This in turn causes a ripple effect that feeds into the abundance mentality and alpha male traits. The alpha male trait/s and mentality needs to become a part of your inner being and personality so that you execute a 80/20 rate of effectiveness in dating and relationships. When you have the money, job, status and looks most of the attraction will come naturally.
Altered Carbon Example: Kovacs upon the onset of the show was given a job proposition. This job proposition gave him the money and status. As a envoy Kovacs had a high status in society. This job gave him a unlimited credit supply. There is no doubt that money and status will give you an abundance mindset. This raises your value or in other words your 'SMV' which stands for 'sexual market value'. Kovacs takes care of his health, his body, his hygiene, etc. Therefore he has the money, job, status and looks for attraction and alpha male trait/s abundance mentality.
ALPHA MALE RULE 2: Don't please or validate women initially. Don't dance around like a monkey to entertain women and joke around all the time. You want to be a girls partner and not just her friend. Friends get 'friend zoned'. This may make you seem like a jerk but honestly if you are a guy you will inevitably be called a jerk by some girl no matter how nice you are. Trust me.
Altered Carbon Example: Kovacs is a serious dude. He hardly jokes around. He may have a sarcastic sense of humor but he generally keeps a masculine frame. When you keep a masculine frame the girl has no other choice but to have a feminine frame. This is the position you want to be in. If a girl sees you as feminine or just a 'friend' then you will be easily forgotten or taken for granted.
ALPHA MALE RULE 3: No Fear of Loss. This bleeds back to the first rule of money, job & status. When you have money, job & status you will have an abundance mindset that causes no fear of loss. This alpha male trait will help you not act needy and push girls away.
Altered Carbon Example: Kovacs threatens the fear of loss with Ortega to see how much she cares. He doesn't chase after Ortega or show interest. He lets her chase. You only want female prospects that value you or they won't respect you. Once they don't respect you or value you then they are gone. Value and respect are more important than simply being 'liked'. You can be 'liked' and be forgotten.
ALPHA MALE RULE 4: Keep a masculine frame. Don't argue with women. That's feminine. Don't be overly emotional.
Altered Carbon Example: Kovacs acts emotionless to Ortega when she argues. Again when you have the job, money and status a lot of things don't bother you as much.
ALPHA MALE RULE 5: Elicit a range of emotions. Love and hate produce the same effect. These emotions keep you on the girls mind. When you deliver emotions to the girl whether good feelings or bad they make the girl obsess. On the other hand indifference will make the girl forget about you. This relates to why girls end up liking a 'jerk' or a 'bad boy' because of how they make her feel. A 'nice guy' doesn't create that range of emotions. A 'nice guy' causes indifference and is easily forgotten or taken for granted.
Altered Carbon Example: Kovacs drives Ortega nuts. Kovacs drives Ortega through the roof. Kovacs makes Ortega crazy. There is a fine line between her hate for him and her love for him you almost can't tell the difference. She obsesses about him night and day. This might not be healthy but it still maintains the attraction nonetheless. Ortega goes from wanting to punch Kovacs to kissing Kovacs.
ALPHA MALE RULE 6: Don't make a girl the ONE and only. Keep your options open. Women do. Trust me. Probably more than men do. This helps with the abundance mindset. When you think only one girl is the ONE then you have entered into scarcity mindset. Naturally if you have the money, job and status then you will see yourself as a man of high value and not be so patient with one woman. Guys who have money, job and status don't seem nice cause they have options.
Altered Carbon Example: Kovacs doesn't hide that he is looking at other girls. In fact Kovacs tells Ortega that a female of high status was in his apartment the night before. You would think that this would push Ortega away but this makes her chase him even more because since Kovacs has the money, job and status the chase is worth the challenge. Girls won't chase guys who have nothing to offer especially if they are taken.
ALPHA MALE RULE 7: Law of Attraction. Focus your effort on girls that are attracted to guys like you. You don't want to stress over a girl that isn't even interested in your type. There are plenty of girls that like your type and personality. When you focus on girls that are attracted to your type you won't have to do much work because they will naturally be attracted to you anyway. The attraction will come easily.
Altered Carbon Example: Ortega is attracted to guys like Kovacs. In fact she used to date a guy that looked just like Kovacs. Either you will look like a guy the girl dated or you remind her of someone she's been with or the type/personality she is attracted to.
Lastly the number one secret to Alpha Male Traits/Mentality and the ultimate red pill is as follows: *Do all this for yourself not the girl.* Don't seek to increase your money, job, status and looks for a girl. Do it for yourself. Girls will come and go. Girls will leave you, ghost you, cheat on you, blame it on you, break up with you then try to get back with you, etc. Don't do it for her. If you do then she becomes the ultimate prize and you disqualify all the other rules. You cannot change a girl or control a girl forever. The only thing that is guaranteed in life is what you do for your life, future and happiness. Let everything else fall into place.
Altered Carbon season 1 explains secrets of Alpha Male Traits and Abundance Mentality to Dating & Relationships. Please feel free to subscribe to my youtube channel. Like, Comment & Share.
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